January 23, 2017
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My Mom and I

“Unu a si no udi nwa gini ka m muru ihe a (What kind of child is this that I have)? This Lagos you live in […]
January 3, 2017
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His Dilemma-Where Will He Go From Here?

I have always loved this lady so much. She is so beautiful and fair to look upon and sincerely, in the whole of the city, she […]
January 3, 2017
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How To Have A Smashing 2017

  Let me start by saying that 1st January, 2017 was no different from 31st December, 2016 only that the former was a Sunday and the […]
January 3, 2017


  It starts on the 31st of December every year. Where I grew up, you will have people who have not swept under their beds in […]
October 24, 2016
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Memoirs of A Lagos Searching Lady 12

Silence. “Dami, are you there?” I was either in a shock or was too angry that my voice disappeared. I opened my mouth but no words […]
October 10, 2016
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Memoirs Of A Searching Lagos Lady 11

It was a cheque of Two Hundred and Fifty Thousand Naira. I was shocked. I did not even know what to feel because I did not […]
September 29, 2016
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What Is Your Biggest Fear?

We are all afraid of one thing or the other. It could be the fear of failure or even success? Surprising isn’t it? But the truth […]
September 27, 2016
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A Life Lesson With Toothpaste

I saw this post on WOMAN.NG and it was an inspiring lesson for me and I thought I should share with us.  
September 26, 2016
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Memoirs Of A Searching Lagos Lady 10

I woke up the next morning with a heavy heart. It still felt like I was in a dream. How could I have been duped? After […]
September 15, 2016
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Love As I See It

I look back and I wonder Even in the midst of my ponder Where you have been all my life Or if you came just to […]
September 13, 2016
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What The Wind Brings Forth

  Wind extinguishes candle but energizes fire. Smith was retrenched from his job and after he collected his letter, he brought out his diary and looked […]
September 12, 2016
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Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 9

  Yemi called again around 9pm and by then, I was visibly worried. Daniel’s number had not gone through all day and I did not know […]
September 11, 2016
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The Lawful Captive

Isaiah 49: 24,25 Shall the prey be taken from the mighty, or the lawful captive delivered? But thus saith the LORD, Even the captives of the […]
September 8, 2016
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Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 8

I left my office and called an Uber cab to take me to the mechanic’s workshop where I will pick up the car. I tried calling […]
August 26, 2016


  I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our […]
July 5, 2016

Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 7

  Now, we all knew Ogechi from our school days as someone who was a serious pessimist. If you had any idea and needed someone who […]
July 1, 2016

Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 6

The occupant of the vehicle walked up to my window and was apologizing. I wound down, opened my car door and walked to the back to […]
June 29, 2016

Memoirs Of A Searching Single Lady 5

  I looked at my friend Enitan and winked, “Please help me arrange these invitation cards, I will be back soon.” We stepped outside the church […]
June 27, 2016

A Letter to Girlkind.

He who finds a woman has found a good thing. I thoroughly agree with that. Emotional. Kind. Intuitive. Nurturing. These and many more qualities are what […]