Memoirs of A Lagos Searching Lady 12


“Dami, are you there?”

I was either in a shock or was too angry that my voice disappeared. I opened my mouth but no words came out.

“Hello Dami, can you hear me?”

“Yes, Daniel, I can hear you.” I said with a voice lacking any form of emotion. Continue reading Memoirs of A Lagos Searching Lady 12

Memoirs Of A Searching Lagos Lady 11

It was a cheque of Two Hundred and Fifty Thousand Naira. I was shocked. I did not even know what to feel because I did not understand why he was giving me a cheque for this amount.

“What is this for?” Continue reading Memoirs Of A Searching Lagos Lady 11

What Is Your Biggest Fear?

We are all afraid of one thing or the other. It could be the fear of failure or even success? Surprising isn’t it? But the truth is that a lot of people are scared of what they will become if they succeed.

A study showed that by the pictures you select from this quiz, they can tell you what your inherent fear could be. Continue reading What Is Your Biggest Fear?

A Life Lesson With Toothpaste

I saw this post on WOMAN.NG and it was an inspiring lesson for me and I thought I should share with us. Continue reading A Life Lesson With Toothpaste

Memoirs Of A Searching Lagos Lady 10

I woke up the next morning with a heavy heart. It still felt like I was in a dream. How could I have been duped? After all my sharpness and even making nasty comments on social media whenever I saw a post detailing the way a lady had been duped. I always told them it was their greed and want for things they did not work for. But here I am, duped for my benevolence. I really did not feel like going to church that day. I was in no hunter’s mood. Was it not hunting that got me where I was? How careful could I have been? Where did I really go wrong? Continue reading Memoirs Of A Searching Lagos Lady 10

Love As I See It

I look back and I wonder

Even in the midst of my ponder

Where you have been all my life

Or if you came just to spy


I remember the days I felt all alone

Wishing there was one to call my own

My pillow bore the brunt of my tears

Who else could bother about my cares?


I had to teach myself to wait

Not minding how long it would take

A time would come when I would smile

And thank my stars it took a while. Continue reading Love As I See It

What The Wind Brings Forth


Wind extinguishes candle but energizes fire.

Smith was retrenched from his job and after he collected his letter, he brought out his diary and looked at his budget for the month. School had just resumed and he had his three children’s school fees to pay. His father-in-law was ill and staying in the hospital in Lagos that meant he was responsible for the bills and taking care of him. His wife had a small provision store in front of their compound that was making just enough profit to buy some foodstuff and pay the shop bills. He was the first son in his family and that meant the responsibilities of the home were on his shoulders. While he was thinking of all these, he looked out the window of his high rise office building and before he could give it a second thought, he made for the window. Continue reading What The Wind Brings Forth

Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 9


Yemi called again around 9pm and by then, I was visibly worried. Daniel’s number had not gone through all day and I did not know how to call Yemi and tell him that. at this point, I was having mixed feelings of both worry and disappointment. Worry because I was really worried about what could have possibly gone wrong and disappointed because if something has happened to Daniel, that means that I have lost a very qualified prospect. Then, the question popped in my head, “What about Daniel do I know that has made me conclude he was a prospect?” I did a random check of my expected qualities which he had checked about 80% of and wondered if that was all I needed to conclude on a guy? I felt a little ashamed of myself. Continue reading Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 9

The Lawful Captive

Osadebe Ijeoma lawful captive

Isaiah 49: 24,25

Shall the prey be taken from the mighty, or the lawful captive delivered?

But thus saith the LORD, Even the captives of the mighty shall be taken away, and the prey of the terrible shall be delivered: for I will contend with him that contendeth with thee, and I will save thy children.

Isaiah 49 vs 12 to 26 was my confession for this week and while I was reading it, these two verses jumped at me and I decided to meditate on them. Here is the lesson I got from it. Continue reading The Lawful Captive

Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 8

I left my office and called an Uber cab to take me to the mechanic’s workshop where I will pick up the car. I tried calling Daniel several times while on my way but did not reach him. I sent several texts asking him to get back to me as soon as he saw the texts. Nothing still.

Continue reading Memoirs of A Searching Lagos Lady 8

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