A Life Lesson With Toothpaste

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A Life Lesson With Toothpaste

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I saw this post on WOMAN.NG and it was an inspiring lesson for me and I thought I should share with us.

My daughter starts middle school tomorrow. We’ve decorated her locker, bought new uniforms, even surprised her with a new backpack. But tonight just before bed, we did another pre-middle school task that is far more important than the others. I gave her a tube of toothpaste and asked her to squirt it out onto a plate. When she finished, I calmly asked her to put all the toothpaste back in the tube. She began exclaiming things like “But I can’t!” and “It won’t be like it was before!” I quietly waited for her to finish and then said the following:
“You will remember this plate of toothpaste for the rest of your life. Your words have the power of life or death. As you go into middle school, you are about to see just how much weight your words carry. You are going to have the opportunity to use your words to hurt, demean, slander and wound others. You are also going to have the opportunity to use your words to heal, encourage, inspire and love others. You will occasionally make the wrong choice; I can think of three times this week I have used my own words carelessly and caused harm. Just like this toothpaste, once the words leave your mouth, you can’t take them back. Use your words carefully, Breonna. When others are misusing their words, guard your words. Make the choice every morning that life-giving words will come out of your mouth. Decide tonight that you are going to be a life-giver in middle school. Be known for your gentleness and compassion. Use your life to give life to a world that so desperately needs it. You will never, ever regret choosing kindness.”

You know, the truth is that our life is ours to live. We CHOOSE what and what we do with our lives. No rule says that you have to give to people exactly what they give to you. You remember the saying that “you do not fight a pig in the mud because the pig is already used to the mud; you are the one who will end up messing yourself up”.

You can choose what you give to the world, the world should not choose that for you.

Ijeoma
Ijeoma
Ijeoma is a writer with a passion for seeing people become their best in whatever they choose to do. In her world, mediocrity is not to be entertained. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your heart. She believes you can live your best life now.

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