Tips on how to deal with Rejection

Osadebe Ijeoma rejection

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt rejected in a relationship either by the man you love or his family? For instance, you are from a different tribe or class from who the family think their son deserves? This could be a very devastating place to be in. It looks like you …

LESSONS FROM EVERYDAY LIFE – LESSON 2

IT PAYS TO POUR IT ALL OUT I was once in  relationship that according to my standards, was beautiful. It was godly, happy, fulfilling and innocent. Along the line, I did something wrong and I asked for forgiveness; in more than one occasion. My partner then, was someone with a big heart, he always forgave …

LESSONS FROM EVERYDAY LIFE-LESSON 1

DO NOT BE TOO QUICK TO JUDGE   The vehicle I was in pulled to a stop in front of a traffic light and we had to wait for the light to turn green before moving ahead, as the light came on, our driver started honking horrendously for the man in front to move quickly …

MEMOIRS OF A SEARCHING LAGOS LADY: EPISODE 2

Osadebe Ijeoma Searching lady

So it’s a Sunday morning and I’m seated in church, jejely worshipping God o, and something in me said “take a good look at the worship leader”, I opened my eyes and looked at him and he was really doing a beautiful worship song “MORE OF YOU” by Sinach with his eyes closed and his …

MEMOIRS OF A SEARCHING LAGOS LADY: EPISODE 1

Osadebe Ijeoma Searching lady

I remember the days when I was 24. I remember the face I made when guys came around trying to get my attention. I was just fresh out of school and waiting for NYSC (National Youth Service Corps). I had all the time in my hands and when I am ready to get married, which …

BEAUTIFUL

When you walk into a room and set your eyes on Rosa, you will involuntarily have to look at her a second time. She is not a light-complexioned person, so it’s not about the colour. She’s actually light chocolate in colour, the kind that mesmerizes the eyes. She has this smile that lights up a …

DARE TO LIVE

Osadebe Ijeoma Free

I have always bragged about one thing in life and that is how I worry about little or nothing. The world could be crumbling at my feet and I could just take a leap and get into the next available spot and catch a nap. To an extent, I was close to “insensitive”. 2014 imported …

TIME TO LIVE

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Hey! Did I tell you i was tired? Oh, I didn’t? Bear with me, It must have skipped my mind.  

THE MISTRESS

You know how easy it is to condemn something that is against your personal life ethos?  How you can easily tear down the next person for getting involved in something totally out of your moral circle. You know how you become judge and moral conscience to someone who did something outside your personal belief? That …

SO HE CAME

For a very long time I searched, I knew there was something missing, I knew it was out there somewhere, And there was the hope of finding it, So I kept searching.