THINGS A SINGLE LADY SHOULD NOT DO

  I go around and I listen to happenings and I see an anomaly that is very saddening.it breaks my heart to see them happen and I think this should be addressed. You know when the bible said that servants were riding on horses while Princes were walking on foot? This can be likened to …

MEMOIRS OF A SEARCHING LAGOS LADY 4

Osadebe Ijeoma Searching lady

  See eh! Here is my spec: A very godly boy with a very godly bank account. It haff finish. Yes! I am a Lagos big geh and I will be falling hand by landing myself just any other young man out there. What will my friends say about me? I am not ready to …

MEMOIRS OF A SEARCHING LAGOS LADY EPISODE 3

Osadebe Ijeoma Searching lady

  So ADVANCED GLOBAL LOGISTICS sent me over to Port Harcourt to meet with a new client who needed to get a new product into the market. As the second most senior PR Executive, the job was assigned to me. I left Lagos on a Monday on the 7:45am flight. While we were checking in, …

IT’S ALL IN YOUR HEAD

  If you are anything like me, then you are a self-proclaimed expert in reading people’s behaviors, body languages and responses. You know what it means when someone answers you with one word when you say hello; you know what it means when someone pauses before responding to your question; you can interpret that when …

JUST AS A CHILD 2

Osadebe Ijeoma girl child

  This is one of the hardest things to be expected from any thinking person. Forgiving a hurt that was not apologized for. My niece surprised me one day. I was with her and her mother and we were trying to sort out something urgently and she kept disturbing us. I tried to distract her …

JUST AS A CHILD 1

Osadebe Ijeoma girl child

Some days ago, I took my time to watch a little child and her mother quarrel. Her mum bought her “gala” (Sausage roll) and she said she did not want that one, she wanted the “Bigi” brand and her mother told her to use her own money to buy it herself. she started throwing and …

Tips on how to deal with Rejection

Osadebe Ijeoma rejection

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt rejected in a relationship either by the man you love or his family? For instance, you are from a different tribe or class from who the family think their son deserves? This could be a very devastating place to be in. It looks like you …

LESSONS FROM EVERYDAY LIFE – LESSON 2

IT PAYS TO POUR IT ALL OUT I was once in  relationship that according to my standards, was beautiful. It was godly, happy, fulfilling and innocent. Along the line, I did something wrong and I asked for forgiveness; in more than one occasion. My partner then, was someone with a big heart, he always forgave …

LESSONS FROM EVERYDAY LIFE-LESSON 1

DO NOT BE TOO QUICK TO JUDGE   The vehicle I was in pulled to a stop in front of a traffic light and we had to wait for the light to turn green before moving ahead, as the light came on, our driver started honking horrendously for the man in front to move quickly …

MEMOIRS OF A SEARCHING LAGOS LADY: EPISODE 2

Osadebe Ijeoma Searching lady

So it’s a Sunday morning and I’m seated in church, jejely worshipping God o, and something in me said “take a good look at the worship leader”, I opened my eyes and looked at him and he was really doing a beautiful worship song “MORE OF YOU” by Sinach with his eyes closed and his …